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RESOURCES FOR MORAL TRAUMA

From self-assessments, to healing guides, journaling prompts, creative arts exercises, inspirations, movies and TV series recommendations, and organizations doing wonderful work to help those struggling with moral trauma.

PERSONAL STORIES OF MORAL INJURY

Voices of courage share their experience of moral injury and moral distress through Michele's project In the Black Hours, a bold collection of photographic vignettes and a compendium of life stories.

MICHELE’S JOURNEY & RESEARCH

Like you, I’ve experienced moral injury, which grounded my research, including developing a writing therapy that has proven very helpful for moral trauma. You can read more about my story here.

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About Michele

I’m a professionally trained therapist, clinical ethicist, writer, and researcher specializing in trauma generally, moral injury and moral distress specifically, and resilience. For more than a decade, I’ve been working with people — often invisible, hidden, or unacknowledged — who have experienced this unique type of trauma and the desire for healing and relief. I’ve also personally experienced moral injury, which grounded my research, including developing a writing therapy that has proven helpful in clinical studies for moral trauma. You can read more about my story here.

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HEALING FROM MORAL TRAUMA

Dispelling the Myth

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So often we think that right and wrong is simply black and white, but for those of us who have experienced a transgression of conscience, nothing about moral trauma is simple; lines once thought to be easily defined can, in a moment, become obscured, and regaining them can be an arduous psychospiritual endeavor.

Healing from moral injury, moral distress, or lost innocence requires a person to reconcile many difficult truths and to transform in difficult yet often unexpected ways. But it also requires communities and systems of shared values to support them. If we can feel what others are suffering—if we don’t simply judge people based on our own opinions or beliefs—then we, as a society, might be better positioned to provide support in the ways people very much need.

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COMMUNITY & CONNECTION

Looking to Unburden Yourself or to Find Kinship and Connection?

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Of what one cannot speak, one must be silent. The sentiment is that of 20th century philosopher Ludwig Wittgenstein when he considered the limits of language, but in another way, it sums up what many people with moral injury, moral distress, or lost innocence feel. Whether it’s because of crushing emotion, the fear of stigma, the numbing from scars, the sense that others “wouldn’t understand,” “couldn’t understand,” “don’t really care,” or would “judge them,” often those who experience moral trauma never share their stories. As a result, they suffer in solitary, self-severing silence.

Healing from moral trauma and building moral resilience requires finding safe ways and trusted others to engage your painful experience. My new Writing the Wrongs course is one such way. While it is self-guided, you have the opportunity to share your insights and experience with the community— but only if you want to.

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New Course By Michele
Writing the Wrongs: Healing Writing to Transform Soul Injuries

Join us for this 30-day course that lets you tell the truth about the painful experience that violated your core values and beliefs in a way that brings comfort and safety in the way that you need to.

One of the few scientifically backed writing programs out there.

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COMMUNITY & CONNECTION

Looking to Unburden Yourself or to Find Kinship and Connection?

Of what one cannot speak, one must be silent. The sentiment is that of 20th century philosopher Ludwig Wittgenstein when he considered the limits of language, but in another way, it sums up what many people with moral injury, moral distress, or lost innocence feel. Whether it’s because of crushing emotion, the fear of stigma, the numbing from scars, the sense that others “wouldn’t understand,” “couldn’t understand,” “don’t really care,” or would “judge them,” often those who experience moral trauma never share their stories. As a result, they suffer in solitary, self-severing silence.

Healing from moral trauma and building moral resilience requires finding safe ways and trusted others to engage your painful experience. My new Writing the Wrongs course is one such way. While it is self-guided, you have the opportunity to share your insights and experience with the community— but only if you want to.

We cannot recreate our lives going backward.
We can only reclaim our life moving forward.
-Michele DeMarco, from Holding Onto Air: The Art and Science of Building a Resilient Spirit

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